Child Sexual Abuse: Prevent it! Stop it! Initiate Healing!
As soon as you identify a child suffering from sexual abuse,
the prime steps shall be to stop it and initiate healing. As we know, a child
can be sexually abused by the closest possible relative; therefore, even when
you are not as close as a parent to a child, you can always educate him or her
about child sexual abuse and can help the sufferer when needed.
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Listen to the child!
The child who has come up to you with his sufferings shall not be ever regarded as someone making up stories. Lend your both ears to the child as this would build a bond between you and your child and he would not be scared to narrate his incidents and sufferings to you despite being threatened by the abuser.
Do not ignore your child even if he or she hints suffering from sexual abuse in his sentences. Let her or him confide in you and take appropriate actions immediately.
The child who has come up to you with his sufferings shall not be ever regarded as someone making up stories. Lend your both ears to the child as this would build a bond between you and your child and he would not be scared to narrate his incidents and sufferings to you despite being threatened by the abuser.
Do not ignore your child even if he or she hints suffering from sexual abuse in his sentences. Let her or him confide in you and take appropriate actions immediately.
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Educate the child!
Children need to know from a very tender age these days that every touch is NOT LOVE. It can be an initiation of CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE. Not everyone who physically touches them has good intentions. Tell your child that even if he feels uncomfortable in a handshake or a hug, there is no need to embrace that action. Teach your child to speak up if she does not feel comfortable with someone touching or kissing her. A family member or a stranger coming near to him physically can manipulate or force him into sexual abuse.
Children need to know from a very tender age these days that every touch is NOT LOVE. It can be an initiation of CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE. Not everyone who physically touches them has good intentions. Tell your child that even if he feels uncomfortable in a handshake or a hug, there is no need to embrace that action. Teach your child to speak up if she does not feel comfortable with someone touching or kissing her. A family member or a stranger coming near to him physically can manipulate or force him into sexual abuse.
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Let the child know about Good Touch and Bad
Touch!
Let your child know that no one is allowed to touch them on sensitive places i.e. chest, lips, bottom, and between legs. Let your child know these are DANGER PLACES. This does not at all mean that uncomfortable touching on other places is allowed. Let the child know that you are with him or her.
Teach your child to know that she can always shout and call for help and run to a person she truly confides in.
Let your child know that no one is allowed to touch them on sensitive places i.e. chest, lips, bottom, and between legs. Let your child know these are DANGER PLACES. This does not at all mean that uncomfortable touching on other places is allowed. Let the child know that you are with him or her.
Teach your child to know that she can always shout and call for help and run to a person she truly confides in.
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Assure your children that you are with them:
Make your child feel VICTOR and a BRAVE SURVIVOR and NOT a VICTIM if she or he has suffered from sexual abuse. Gradually and lovingly push their interests back to their hobbies, sports, and their studies. Give them time to heal as hurrying to bring them back to a healed state can worsen the situation and can be traumatic on their mental and emotional health which would, in turn, reflect on their physical health.
Make your child feel VICTOR and a BRAVE SURVIVOR and NOT a VICTIM if she or he has suffered from sexual abuse. Gradually and lovingly push their interests back to their hobbies, sports, and their studies. Give them time to heal as hurrying to bring them back to a healed state can worsen the situation and can be traumatic on their mental and emotional health which would, in turn, reflect on their physical health.
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Know about POSCO ACT 2012:
Tell your children that they can always call the police on 100 in India if they have access to phones and are stuck in a situation of sexual abuse.
Further, POSCO or The Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act 2012 was established to protect the children against offenses like sexual abuse, sexual harassment, and pornography. It is always important to at least know how the law can help you in severe situations.
Tell your children that they can always call the police on 100 in India if they have access to phones and are stuck in a situation of sexual abuse.
Further, POSCO or The Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act 2012 was established to protect the children against offenses like sexual abuse, sexual harassment, and pornography. It is always important to at least know how the law can help you in severe situations.
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Get Homeopathic Treatment:
Multiple private consultations with a trusted homeopathic doctor can help your child reveal his or her mental and emotional state along with his physical state and pain. Detailed case taking can help a homeopathic doctor to come out with remedies that can help children overcome their emotional and mental pain. These remedies are specific for each child and can build self-confidence in children. Homeopathic remedies can heal aggressiveness, address sleep issues, and help them overcome their suicidal tendencies.
Do remember that no homeopathic remedy shall be given to your child without consulting a good and trusted homeopathic doctor. Though the homeopathic case-taking can be complex and multi-layered; it acts wonderfully when given in synergy with the therapies your child is already taking to overcome the sexual abuse he or she has suffered. Addiction to drugs can also be addressed with customized homeopathic treatment. Behavioral changes can be addressed with homeopathic treatment. Accurate treatment can help a child who has suffered from sexual abuse overcome the feeling of being a victim and make her emerge as a brave survivor and a victor.
The effect of homeopathic treatment can make your child proceed to a healthy adulthood.
Adults can always get customized homeopathic treatment to heal the damage done to their health due to child sexual abuse they had suffered in the past which was left unaddressed at that time.
Multiple private consultations with a trusted homeopathic doctor can help your child reveal his or her mental and emotional state along with his physical state and pain. Detailed case taking can help a homeopathic doctor to come out with remedies that can help children overcome their emotional and mental pain. These remedies are specific for each child and can build self-confidence in children. Homeopathic remedies can heal aggressiveness, address sleep issues, and help them overcome their suicidal tendencies.
Do remember that no homeopathic remedy shall be given to your child without consulting a good and trusted homeopathic doctor. Though the homeopathic case-taking can be complex and multi-layered; it acts wonderfully when given in synergy with the therapies your child is already taking to overcome the sexual abuse he or she has suffered. Addiction to drugs can also be addressed with customized homeopathic treatment. Behavioral changes can be addressed with homeopathic treatment. Accurate treatment can help a child who has suffered from sexual abuse overcome the feeling of being a victim and make her emerge as a brave survivor and a victor.
The effect of homeopathic treatment can make your child proceed to a healthy adulthood.
Adults can always get customized homeopathic treatment to heal the damage done to their health due to child sexual abuse they had suffered in the past which was left unaddressed at that time.
Constructive and gentle healing of damages done to
emotional, mental and physical health always helps in achieving holistic
health.

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